- If you're just starting your attachment repair journey...
- Start with thePerfect Nurturer Reinforcement meditations.
- If you're feeling triggered and want to emotionally-regulate and calm yourself...
- Start with thePerfect Nurturer Reinforcement meditations.
- If you have a particular negative belief (schema) that you want to work on...
- Listen to the Schema Repatterning Meditations.
- If you have a particular negative behaviour you want to work through...
- Listen to the Mentalizing the Modes meditations.
- If you're learning about metacognition...
- Listen to the metacognition of mental states.
- If you want to go deeper into metacognition in a more integrated fashion with your schemas...
- Listen to the Mentalizing the Modes meditations.
- If you want to work on healthy adult self development...
- Listen to the Healthy Adult Mode meditations.
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We all learned behaviours in childhood we thought we needed in order to cope. These are schema modes. In this guided meditation, we will take a look at our modes, seeing how they made sense at a certain time. And we'll explore who we are without them. For this practice, you are invited to bring a pen and paper to record any insights that might arise.
Oct 22 2021
This meditation invites us to reflect on the qualities of Bernstein's Healthy Adult Mode and see how we can embody them. We will also examine any schemas or modes (negative beliefs or coping behaviors) that take us out of the Healthy Adult Mode, seeing how they made sense at one time, but are no longer needed.
This meditation invites us to reflect on the qualities of Bernstein's Healthy Adult Mode and see how we can embody them. We will also examine any schemas or modes (negative beliefs or coping behaviors) that take us out of the Healthy Adult Mode, seeing how they made sense at one time, but are no longer needed.
Sep 10 2021
Aug 20 2021
Short Lecture, Guided Meditation, Q&A
Schema modes are emotional states and coping strategies that we all use. Below is an exploration of how attachment styles exhibit or inhibit different modes. By bringing different modes to mind, we can understand their roles in our lives. Examining them in the light of mindfulness, we can begin to choose whether or not to act on them.
May 05 2021