The “Mistrust & Abuse” schema is nearly always quite strong in these cases, and so it’s important to prioritise it.
- If doing a confrontation-scene, focus on protection and safety.
- The Perfect Nurturers really back you up, give you power and moral authority
The material in the “Working through Disorganized Attachment” course is very relevant, in particular the guided meditations.
The conference-room technique can also be very helpful for working with this type of material.