• Date: Sunday, 5th Sep 2021
  • Instructor: Cedric Reeves
  • Cost: Sliding scale

Join us for this half-day event in which we will use visualization exercises to identify and repattern our grievances and resentments, moving instead towards wholeness, ease, integration and "conformity with the ways things are”.

In this workshop we will be using a forgiveness meditation technique with the focus on forgiveness of self and other. Through these guided forgiveness meditations we will heal the inner schisms and splits of our psyches and move towards wholeness, ease, integration and 'conformity with the ways things are'.

Who is this for?

  • For anyone who wants to go from insecure to secure attachment.
  • Suitable for anyone new to attachment-work, or is already experienced.
  • People with Insecure Attachment.
  • For anyone who is willing to do the work to get results


  • Program: 3 sessions of 60 minutes each.
  • Live Online Sessions: The live sessions will be hosted on Zoom. An email with the zoom links will be sent to you after you have registered.
  • Q&A: There will be opportunity to ask questions during the Q&A section.

Attendance & Recordings

  • Partial attendance is fine - however you get best results if you attend all sessions.
  • Late Starts: You can join even after it has started.
  • View at your own pace: The event will be recorded and sent out to registered participants for viewing on your own schedule.

Event Date & Time

This workshop will run twice in order to be accessible to people in different time zones. The content is exactly the same. You will get the access details for both after signing up.

5th Sep 2021

Evening Option
  • New York 2:00 to 5:30 pm (EST)
  • Chicago 1:00 to 4:30 pm (CDT)
  • Denver 12:00 to 3:30 pm (MDT)
  • San Francisco 11:00 to 2:30 pm (PT)
  • Brasilia 4:00 to 7:30 pm (BRT)
  • London 7:00 to 10:30 pm (BST)
  • Paris 8:00 to 11:30 pm (CEST)
  • Moscow 10:00 to 1:30 am (MSK)
  • Delhi 12:30 to 4:00 am (IST)


  • Wellington 8:00 to 11:30 am 🌞 (NZST)
  • Perth 3:00 to 6:30 am (AWST)
  • Sydney 6:00 to 9:30 am 🌞 (AEST)

workshop Schedule

There will be 3 sessions of 60 minutes each, for 4 hours total.

Each session is like this:

Duration Activity
10 mins Lecture
40 mins Guided Meditation
5 mins Q&A

We will be doing deep work. For that reason please feel free to take a break at any point.

workshop Overview

This program is suitable for beginners to meditation and healing work.

This program will have an experiential focus on the quality of forgiveness.

During the exercises, we’ll focus on both processing and forgiving others and ourselves. We’ll develop and deepen compassion towards self and other. Importantly, we’ll give ourselves full permission to feel our suffering, validating any difficult emotions. We’ll also engage in perspective taking exercises which will help us release ourselves from blame and release others from blame when we are ready to do so – never rushing the process! Moreover, we’ll see how that which we reject in others we tend to reject in ourselves and we’ll work towards healing this psychic-split.

The material on this course has been influenced by Bruce Ecker’s book “Unlocking the Emotional Brain”: “Neuroscience research since 2004 has shown that the brain has a key to locked synapses: a type of neuro-plasticity known as memory reconsolidation, which, when launched by a certain series of experiences, actually unlocks the synapses of a target emotional learning, allowing it to be not merely overridden but actually nullified and deleted by new learning.

I hope that we’ll develop a sense of community together. As part of signing up you’ll be invited to the Attachment Repair Slack Group.

We will send out recordings to everyone who signs up. But it is highly recommended to attend live because we will be pairing up participants to do dyad-work.

Miscellaneous Notes

There will be time for Q&A and spot coaching during the live event. The Q&A recording will not be made available thereafter. If you do not attend live, you will not have access to the Q&A.

We will be doing deep work. For that reason please feel free to take a break at any point.

Who is this for?

This program is for those of us who...

  • Are looking to improve our psychological health, especially if you have tried other healing modalities with disappointing results
  • Want to let go of old grudges
  • Difficulties with intimate relationships
  • Have difficulties with emotional regulation

Healing Together

Shared interest and social support can make meditation practice, study, and healing much easier. Make friends in the course on the slack channel and invite friends who you think could benefit to participate in the course.


These are some of the benefits you will have by the end of the program

Theoretical Understanding

  • The importance of forgiveness and how to cultivate it
  • Understanding of how insecure attachment forms an important foundation of adult mental healt


  • A better ability to observe your mind with meta-cognitive awareness as a result of the mentalization exercises peppered through the guided meditations.
  • Better able to use forgiveness as an antidote to negative mental states (anger, holding grudges etc)
  • Less blame of self or others

For your relationships

  • more forgiveness = easier relationships that repair more quickly after the inevitable ruptures that occur.

Support Structure

  • A sense of camaraderie as a result of seeing how our psychological difficulties are rooted in common experiences that affect us all.
  • A Slack group to continue discussion going forward

Frequently Asked Questions

About Participation

Once you sign up, an email will be sent out to you with a Zoom link. It will allow you to access the live classes. A free Zoom account is necessary, and Zoom needs to be installed on your computer before the event starts.
No, this course is open to anyone, regardless of your familiarity with attachment theory or prior meditation experience.
Yes, and in fact we highly encouraged you to do both.

Payment Questions

If for any reason you aren’t satisfied, simply contact us and we will send you a full refund.
If you are experiencing troubles with your payment, simply contact us and we will get back to you as soon as we can.
There are other payment methods listed on our donations page. Otherwise contact us for other options. If you lack any ability to make online payments, let us know and we can sign you up for free.

Technical Questions

The recordings will be available for 3 more months after the course ends.
The recordings will be made available as video and also as audio-only.

If you are experiencing any technical issues relating to accessing the material or live sessions, please get in touch with us. We will get back to you as soon as possible.

We can be reached with our online contact form.


This is what participants of prior workshops have to say:


Thank you for continuing to make these classes. When I am able to attend, they make a really positive contribution to my mental health :)

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This Post Has 4 Comments

  1. Hanakekua Joao

    Hello Cedric,

    I sent my donation for Sunday’s 2:30-5:00 pm session. Is there a registration form I need to fill out to receive the zoom link for the session?


    1. Hi Hana,
      I just re-sent the registration email to you that contains the link. Please be sure to double-check junk folders. You can contact us via email if you still aren’t receiving it

  2. Patricia Smith

    Hello Cedric. I just found your YT channel Attachment Repair last week and have already benefitted from two of the sessions, this last one on forgiveness and the emotional repatterning meditation. I would like to learn much more. Please put me on any newsletter list so I can sign up for more of these sessions and be able to ask some questions live. (on Youtube my identity is “Pa” which I did purposely to avoid any unwanted attention from stalkers.)

    1. Hi Patricia. Wonderful to hear you benefited from the meditations – we’ve added you to the newsletter. You should get an email that you will have to confirm

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