• Date: Sunday, 12th Feb 2023
  • Instructor: Cedric Reeves
  • Cost: Sliding scale
    $20 ~ $120

Join us for this workshop where we'll clarify what compassion is, how to cultivate it, and its benefits.

The intended outcome is to learn how to use compassion meditation to help us heal our attachment conditioning and how compassion supports healthy relationships with others.

This program is for people who are interested in compassion. Compassion is a universal virtue. You don't have to be a Buddhist to do this practice.

Who is this for?

  • For anyone who wants to go from insecure to secure attachment.
  • Suitable for anyone new to attachment-work, or is already experienced.
  • People with Insecure Attachment.
  • For anyone who is willing to do the work to get results


  • Program: 3 sessions of 60 minutes each.
  • Live Online Sessions: The live sessions will be hosted on Zoom. An email with the zoom links will be sent to you after you have registered.
  • Q&A: There will be opportunity to ask questions during the Q&A section.

Attendance & Recordings

  • Partial attendance is fine - however you get best results if you attend all sessions.
  • Late Starts: You can join even after it has started.
  • View at your own pace: The event will be recorded and sent out to registered participants for viewing on your own schedule.

Event Date & Time

This workshop will run twice in order to be accessible to people in different time zones. The content is exactly the same. You will get the access details for both after signing up.

12th Feb 2023

Start and end times
  • New York 8:30 to 1:00 pm ๐ŸŒž (EST)
  • Chicago 7:30 to 12:00 pm ๐ŸŒž (CDT)
  • Denver 6:30 to 11:00 am ๐ŸŒž (MDT)
  • San Francisco 5:30 to 10:00 am ๐ŸŒž (PT)
  • Brasilia 9:30 to 2:00 pm (BRT)
  • London 1:30 to 6:00 pm ๐ŸŒž (BST)
  • Paris 2:30 to 7:00 pm ๐ŸŒž (CEST)
  • Moscow 3:30 to 8:00 pm (MSK)
  • Delhi 6:00 to 10:30 pm (IST)


  • Wellington 12:30 to 5:00 am (NZST)
  • Perth 8:30 to 1:00 am (AWST)
  • Sydney 10:30 to 3:00 am (AEST)

workshop Schedule

There will be 3 sessions of 60 minutes each, for 5 hours total.

Each session is like this:

Duration Activity
10 mins Lecture
40 mins Guided Meditation
5 mins Q&A

We will be doing deep work. For that reason please feel free to take a break at any point.

workshop Overview

This program is suitable for beginners to meditation and healing work.

This program explores the benefits of cultivating compassion.

Meditation Technique

Tong Len is said to all include four sublime emotions: Loving Kindness, Compassion, Sympathetic Joy, and Equanimity. It also is a training in the practice of generosity, ethics, tolerance, effort, concentration and wisdom, all at once.


Resistance is a normal part of the healing process. We will learn to understand and value our own resistance, developing openness, and compassion towards it; not pushing it away.

Second Lecture and Guided Meditation

The second lecture will provide another opportunity for question and answer. Additionally we’ll discuss the motivation to heal in such away to be both personally happier and also to be of greater service to others. Moreover, we will discuss how and why compassion is a natural and necessary outcome of deep and proper spiritual practice.

Tong Len is a safe practice for beginners. But, it can be kinda weird if you aren’t used to it. Metta (loving-kindness) or breath/concentration practice should be used if Tong Len starts to get more difficult.

Miscellaneous Notes

There will be time for Q&A and spot coaching during the live event. The Q&A recording will not be made available thereafter. If you do not attend live, you will not have access to the Q&A.

We will be doing deep work. For that reason please feel free to take a break at any point.

Who is this for?

This program is for those of us who...

  • are looking to improve their psychological health, especially those who have tried other healing modalities with disappointing results.
  • have problems with exploration and self development, relationships and emotional regulation
  • want to optimise their psychological health

Healing Together

Shared interest and social support can make meditation practice, study, and healing much easier.

Make friends in the course on the slack channel and invite friends who you think could benefit to participate in the course.


These are some of the benefits you will have by the end of the program

Theoretical Understanding

  • The importance of forgiveness and how to cultivate it
  • Understanding of how insecure attachment forms an important foundation of adult mental health


  • A better ability to observe your mind with metacognitive awareness as a result of the mentalization exercises peppered through the guided meditations
  • Better able to use forgiveness as an antidote to negative mental states (anger, holding grudges etc)
  • Less blame of self or others

For your relationships

  • More forgiveness = easier relationships that repair more quickly after the inevitable ruptures that occur

Support Structure

  • A sense of camaraderie as a result of seeing how our psychological difficulties are rooted in common experiences that affect us all
  • A Slack group to continue discussion going forward

Frequently Asked Questions

About Participation

Once you sign up, an email will be sent out to you with a Zoom link. It will allow you to access the live classes. A free Zoom account is necessary, and Zoom needs to be installed on your computer before the event starts.
No, this course is open to anyone, regardless of your familiarity with attachment theory or prior meditation experience.
Yes, and in fact we highly encouraged you to do both.

Payment Questions

If for any reason you arenโ€™t satisfied, simply contact us and we will send you a full refund.
If you are experiencing troubles with your payment, simply contact us and weย will get back to you as soon as we can.
There are other payment methods listed on ourย donations page. Otherwise contact us for other options. If you lack any ability to make online payments, let us know and we can sign you up for free.

Technical Questions

The recordings will be available for 3 more months after the course ends.
The recordings will be made available as video and also as audio-only.

If you are experiencing any technical issues relating to accessing the material or live sessions, please get in touch with us. We will get back to you as soon as possible.

We can be reached with our online contact form.


This is what participants of prior workshops have to say:


Thank you for continuing to make these classes. When I am able to attend, they make a really positive contribution to my mental health :)

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