• Date: Sunday, 25th Aug 2024
  • Instructor: Cedric Reeves
  • Cost: Sliding scale
    $30 ~ $120
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Join us for this workshop where we will develop compassion by using a traditional Buddhist Meditation practice (Tong Len). Then we will identify aspects of self and other that we don't like. Then in guided meditation we will first develop compassion towards those aspects. Moreover, we'll investigate the difficult experiences that have contributed to these issues/aspetcs.

The intended outcome is more compassion towards self and other and more understanding of causal factors that have contributed to these aspects that we don't like about self or other. We will see the impersonal and causal nature of these aspects and even our own dislike of them.

This program is for people who struggle with acceptance of self and other. Said differently, we'll start working through that which is aversive.

Who is this for?

  • For anyone who wants to go from insecure to secure attachment.
  • Suitable for anyone new to attachment-work, or is already experienced.
  • People with Insecure Attachment.
  • Anyone who is willing to do the work to get results

Format

  • Program: 3 sessions of 60 minutes each.
  • Live Online Sessions: The live sessions will be hosted on Zoom. An email with the zoom links will be sent to you after you have registered.
  • Q&A: There will be opportunity to ask questions during the Q&A section.

Attendance & Recordings

  • Partial attendance is fine - however you get best results if you attend all sessions.
  • Late Starts: You can join even after it has started.
  • View at your own pace: The event will be recorded and sent out to registered participants for viewing on your own schedule.

Event Date & Time

25th Aug 2024

Start and end times
  • New York 9:00 to 1:00 pm 🌞 (EST)
  • Chicago 8:00 to 12:00 pm 🌞 (CDT)
  • Denver 7:00 to 11:00 am 🌞 (MDT)
  • San Francisco 6:00 to 10:00 am 🌞 (PT)
  • Brasilia 10:00 to 2:00 pm (BRT)
  • London 2:00 to 6:00 pm 🌞 (BST)
  • Paris 3:00 to 7:00 pm 🌞 (CEST)
  • Moscow 4:00 to 8:00 pm (MSK)
  • Delhi 6:30 to 10:30 pm (IST)

+12h

  • Wellington 2:00 to 6:00 am 🌞 (NZST)
  • Perth 9:00 to 1:00 am (AWST)
  • Sydney 12:00 to 4:00 am 🌞 (AEST)
The initial material in this course will already be familiar to participants who have already taken courses with Attachment Repair. If you would like to skip that, you can join around ~60 minutes after the start time.

workshop Overview

This program is suitable for beginners to meditation and healing work.

Aversion towards aspects of self and/or other is a normal part of our messy human existence. However, for some of us, aversion/non-acceptance of aspects of self and others damages our experience of life and can obstruct the path of healing.

In this course we’ll:

  1. find and examine these ‘points of aversion’
  2. see the causal and impersonal nature of these parts of self and other we don’t like
  3. examine, normalize, and work through our aversion itself
  4. develop compassion towards self and other
  5. and apply compassion toward that which we don’t like

This course draws from:

  • Buddhist compassion meditation (Tong Len)
  • Coherence Therapy (Bruce Ecker et al.)
  • Mentalization Based Treatment.

Please note that this workshop is focused on experiential guided meditation plus some basic psycho education on compassion and acceptance.

This workshop is not psychotherapy or a substitute for it.

 

 

Miscellaneous Notes

There will be time for Q&A and spot coaching during the live event. The Q&A recording will not be made available thereafter. If you do not attend live, you will not have access to the Q&A.

We will be doing deep work. For that reason please feel free to take a break at any point.

Walking Meditation

There will be a few breaks for walking meditation, and brief instructions will be given.

Who is this for?

This program is for those of us who...

  • struggle with self acceptance and acceptance of others.

Healing Together

Shared interest and social support can make meditation practice, study, and healing much easier.

Make friends in the course on the slack channel and invite friends who you think could benefit to participate in the course.

Benefits

These are some of the benefits you will have by the end of the program

Theoretical Understanding

Better understanding for what we don’t like (the object of aversion) and aversion itself.

Psychological

  • more self acceptance and acceptance of others

For your relationships

  • More patience and understanding towards those near to you

Support Structure

  • Opportunities to find accountability partners to meditate with.
  • A sense of camaraderie as a result of seeing how our psychological difficulties are rooted in common experiences that affect us all.
  • Slack group with which to discuss and share experiences and consolidate what you are learning.

Frequently Asked Questions

About Participation

Once you sign up, an email will be sent out to you with a Zoom link. It will allow you to access the live classes. A free Zoom account is necessary, and Zoom needs to be installed on your computer before the event starts.
No, this course is open to anyone, regardless of your familiarity with attachment theory or prior meditation experience.
Yes, and in fact we highly encouraged you to do both.

Payment Questions

If for any reason you aren’t satisfied, simply contact us and we will send you a full refund.
If you are experiencing troubles with your payment, simply contact us and we will get back to you as soon as we can.
There are other payment methods listed on our donations page. Otherwise contact us for other options. If you lack any ability to make online payments, let us know and we can sign you up for free.

Technical Questions

The recordings will be available for 3 more months after the course ends.
The recordings will be made available as video and also as audio-only.

If you are experiencing any technical issues relating to accessing the material or live sessions, please get in touch with us. We will get back to you as soon as possible.

We can be reached with our online contact form.

Testimonials

This is what participants of prior workshops have to say:

Dani

Thank you for continuing to make these classes. When I am able to attend, they make a really positive contribution to my mental health :)

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Registration

This event is offered on a sliding scale to be accessible to anyone.

This event has ended, but you can still register to get the recordings.

They will be emailed to you as soon as they are ready - within a week of the event.

🎓 Scholarships: Inability to pay is no barrier to taking the class.  Please fill in this form if you need a scholarship and we will accommodate you.

Refund policy: If you are dissatisfied for whatever reason, simply let us know and we will issue you a full refund, no questions asked.

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