This is a digital Self-Paced Course

  • Simply purchase and download the zip
  • Lifetime access to course material

Download contains:

  • 7 video lectures, 5 hours total
  • 10 guided meditations, 3 hours total

Overview

This course will help you understand and change the beliefs and behavioral patterns which cause perfectionism, emotional inhibition, and negativity bias. In guided meditations we’ll study, understand, confront, and re-pattern the four schemas of Jeffrey Young’s “Hyper-vigilance and Inhibition Schema Domain”.  The four schemas are:
  1. Emotional Inhibition: Repression and inhibition of emotion in order to avoid rejection or critique.
  2. Unrelenting Standards/Hyper-criticalness: High internal demands for competence, achievement, rule-following, ethics, and efficiency.
  3. Punitiveness: The belief that others or oneself should be punished for their mistakes. Harshness, lack of clemency, lack of forgiveness.
  4. Negativity/Pessimism: A pervasive expectation of negative outcomes in life. This reinforces helplessness and hopelessness
These four schemas are found in all three major insecure attachment styles.  Therefore it is relevant to people with  Dismissing-Avoidant, Anxious-Preoccupied, and Fearful-Disorganized Attachment. This program is for you if you want to work on your:
  • exploration and self development
  • relationships and emotional regulation
  • psychological health, especially if you have tried other healing modalities with disappointing results
  • understanding of the early foundations of your psychological development
  • emotional inhibition, perfectionism, or tendency towards pessimism

Who is this For

This program is for those of us who...

  • Are looking to improve our psychological health, especially those who have tried other healing modalities with disappointing results.
  • Have problems with exploration and self development, relationships and emotional regulation
  • Want to optimise our psychological health
  • Want to understand the early foundations of our psychological development
  • Want to overcome emotional inhibition
  • Want to overcome perfectionism
  • Want to overcome a tendency towards pessimism

Benefits & Outcomes

These are some of the benefits you will have by the end of the program

Theoretical Understanding

  • A basic understanding of attachment theory and how to start doing it.
  • A more coherent understanding of the role your childhood experiences had in producing your adult personality.
  • A better understanding of how you personally developed the schemas of emotional inhibition, pessimism, punitiveness, and unrelenting standards.
  • An understanding that the development of these schemas is just ‘causal’, not personal.  This helps us release shame around our schema and personality difficulties.

Psychological

  • A full day of attachment repair meditation that will start moving you towards a secure attachment conditioning and a greater ability to do self-development and explore what is personally meaningful to you.
  • A very effective way to do emotional regulation on the spot in your daily life with ‘micro-hits’ of Schema Repatterning Meditation.
  • A better ability to observe your mind with metacognitive awareness as a result of the mentalization exercises peppered through the guided meditations.
  • Better understanding of your own relationship shortcomings and how to remedy them.
  • Less identification with your psychological maladies and quirks (ego-distonia with your maladaptive schemas)

For your relationships

  • Greater understanding and compassion for psychological problems and vulnerabilities that effect yours and others.
  • Less blame of self or others.
  • A sense of camaraderie as a result of seeing how our psychological difficulties are rooted in common experiences that affect us all.

Included Files:

1

Introduction to Attachment and Schema Therapy

Introduction to Attachment and Schema Therapy

Video
33 mins
2

Perfect Nurturer Reinforcement

Perfect Nurturer Reinforcement

Video
33 mins

Perfect Nurturer Reinforcement

Meditation
32 mins
3

Unrelenting Standards & Hypercriticalness

Unrelenting Standards & Hypercriticalness

Video
53 mins

Educational Meditation on Unrelenting Standards Schema

Meditation
10 mins

SRM on Unrelenting Standards Schema

Meditation
41 mins
4

Emotional Inhibition

Emotional Inhibition

Video
48 mins

Educational Meditation on Emotional Inhibition Schema

Meditation
8 mins

SRM on Emotional Inhibition Schema

Meditation
40 mins
5

Negativity & Pessimism

Negativity & Pessimism

Video
46 mins

Educational Meditation on Negativity Schema

Meditation
7 mins

SRM on Negativity Schema

Meditation
39 mins
6

Punitiveness

Punitiveness

Video
46 mins

Educational Meditation on Punitiveness Schema

Meditation
5 mins

SRM on Punitiveness Schema

Meditation
37 mins
7

Best Self

Best Self

Video
17 mins

Best Self

Meditation
6 mins
  • 7 video lectures, 5 hours total
  • 10 guided meditations extracted as .mp3s, 3 hours total

Frequently Asked Questions

Self-Paced Courses

Yes, and in fact we highly encouraged you to do both.
By buying this course you receive lifetime access to a collection of videos and guided meditation tracks. These are organized so that there is a progressive order to them, but you can take them as slowly or as quickly as you'd like, and you can always view the same content again.
Once you've completed your purchase, you'll get a link to download the course. You can then view the audio or video files from your laptop, desktop, smartphone, or any devices of your own choice. There is no limit to how many devices you can access the course from.
You can download and keep this course forever and watch it at your own pace as many times as you wish. There is no live Q&A section.

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If for any reason you aren’t satisfied, simply contact us and we will send you a full refund.
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Description

This course will help you understand and change the beliefs and behavioral patterns which cause perfectionism, emotional inhibition, and negativity bias.

In guided meditations we’ll study, understand, confront, and re-pattern the four schemas of Jeffrey Young’s “Hyper-vigilance and Inhibition Schema Domain”.  The four schemas are:

  1. Emotional Inhibition: Repression and inhibition of emotion in order to avoid rejection or critique.
  2. Unrelenting Standards/Hyper-criticalness: High internal demands for competence, achievement, rule-following, ethics, and efficiency.
  3. Punitiveness: The belief that others or oneself should be punished for their mistakes. Harshness, lack of clemency, lack of forgiveness.
  4. Negativity/Pessimism: A pervasive expectation of negative outcomes in life. This reinforces helplessness and hopelessness

These four schemas are found in all three major insecure attachment styles.  Therefore it is relevant to people with  Dismissing-Avoidant, Anxious-Preoccupied, and Fearful-Disorganized Attachment.

This program is for you if you want to work on your:

  • exploration and self development
  • relationships and emotional regulation
  • psychological health, especially if you have tried other healing modalities with disappointing results
  • understanding of the early foundations of your psychological development
  • emotional inhibition, perfectionism, or tendency towards pessimism

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