The “Mistrust & Abuse” schema is nearly always quite strong in these cases, and so it’s important to prioritise it.
- If doing a confrontation-scene, focus on protection and safety.
- The Perfect Nurturers really back you up, give you power and moral authority
The material in the “Working through Disorganized Attachment” course is very relevant, in particular the guided meditations.
The conference-room technique can also be very helpful for working with this type of material.
When doing this type of inner-work it is normal to feel resistance and objections coming up. So have the Perfect Nurturers validate the resitance, they address it and work with you with the objections, in exactly whatever way suits you the most. As a general principle, the Perfect Nurturers always validate you and help you with whatever situation, or resistance / objection to a situation, comes up in the meditation.